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PostSubject: Totally off the subject but...   Tue Sep 07, 2010 2:16 am

Hey everyone,

I have a question, does anyone here believe in twin flames or soulmates? And have any of you found yours yet? Well if you do believe in such a concept, and I do, most if not all of us probably lost or found our other half during the fall. Just curious as to other people's opinion or experiences on the subject.

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PostSubject: Re: Totally off the subject but...   Tue Sep 07, 2010 2:52 pm

I do .... most certainly do! Forever and ever and a day!

True Trust and True Love

When people are in a relationship most of the times their feelings for each other are based on a affective love, which means their feelings are based on sexual issues, physical, economical, mental or psychological factors.

It is often so that in relationships, and mostly during the 'butterfly-in-love' stage that the loved one can't do anything wrong, he / she is seen through pink glasses and for every negative thing he / she thinks or does there is a good and denying explanation.

After a while this stage of 'butterfly-in-love' feelings will calm down and then the negative aspects of the loved one come surfacing, which can be hurtful, because often it is realized that the loved-one is not as 'perfect' as thought.

Basically, the butterfly-feelings 'being-in-love' or having a crush on a person is very often self-delusional, and based on wishes and unreal thinking.


True Trust

Real Trust, like real and effective Love is based on knowledge and facts, it means that a person needs to objectively observe and analyze another person to know if the other person is trustworthy or not, when the other person is trustworthy, then it should be based on the facts about this person.

In this situation it will be possible to have a sense of trust for the other and it will be based on facts and knowledge, in this situation, you know that the other person in your life won't deceive you or give you major problems.

When there is a trust connection between two people based on knowledge (and never on mindless believes) then there can be no room for jealousy or any other negative feeling.

Of course, in this day and age True Trust and True Trustworthiness are still faraway since people are full of materialistic thinking and cult-religious believes.

A person becomes truly trustworthy when his/her life is aimed and geared towards the real truth about Creation and its Laws, when logic become the dictating force in a persons life then he/she will never do things consciously against logic or the Truth.

For people to have a mutual trust connection, both need to have both trust and trustworthiness in themselves in order to form a trust-bond, which is usually the direct precursor of a true love form.

When a true trust connection is made, it is indestructible and solid for life, in such a connection, jealousy, envy, mistrust, etc, etc cannot exist.



True Love

Actual effective Love, regardless on the form of love, is based on an absolute knowledge, Truth and Trust

In the form of a binding-love between a man and a woman it's the absolute certainty that both are one in an indivisible union, in balance of positive and negative.

This means that feeling a union with your spouse/partner, etc it also means that you are honest and address any positive and negative issue in an equal and balanced basis.

This means that you correct a negative action of your partner for the reason to help your partner to evolve and learn from his/her mistake.

When you feel / sense a true love for a person, based on trust and out of mutual evolution, this bond will be unbreakable for all times, in life and in death.

Whenever you are thousands of miles apart, you always will feel him or her close to you since the love bond is always there.

So, create true love on the balance of positive and negative, be honest to yourself, and towards the other, and know, feel and trust that the love bond with the other is for all time to come.


Ouza


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PostSubject: Re: Totally off the subject but...   Tue Sep 07, 2010 10:24 pm

I think you will find that many of the members will believe in a soul mate and in the concept of true love lasting millennia. In fact, many of us here are still looking for, or hoping to one day meet, those we loved before the Fall who were the twin to our soul and the love that shone greater than any Sun.

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PostSubject: Re: Totally off the subject but...   Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:21 am

This question is very hard for me to read, for some reason. It brought tears to my eyes, and I don't really know why. They aren't of sorrow, or regret, or even longing. Just absence: of a person, a touch, a certainty. I know I am feeling something, but what it is, I can't describe or explain, even to myself.

Sometimes, it seems as if I have a harem. My relationships have been monogamous, out of respect and love for the person I was with, but I always had several others chasing after me as well. If I were dating now (physical relationships do not appear to be in the works), I would probably be polyamorous. Spiritually, there are several distinct personalities who spend time with me. One (the first to come around) was my husband in a past life. Another apparently is promised to me this time around, at least for a while, and provides help and incentive in the things I am doing, as they will help me move into a position where he can find me. The third major one and I were close before my fall, and I hope to help him reunite with his true love. There are others as well, who come and go, and share a deep love with me, completely unlike anything I experienced in relationships, or with my family. My experiences with them make me wonder if the soul itself is composed of love.

I do believe in soul mates. I'm not sure if I've asked myself that question in complete honesty before, but I do. It seemed a very unlikely idea to me for quite a while, that there would be only one soul, which the one joined to it must find, so both may be fully complete. That one person could provide such an alpha and omega for another; I cannot imagine the depth of love which would result from such a union, but know now in my heart that it is true.

Whether I myself have one, though, is a completely different question... perhaps that is why I feel so alone right now.
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PostSubject: Re: Totally off the subject but...   Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:37 am

Scratch I believe everyone has a soulmate, I used to question the same thing for myself but I think I have recently realized who mine is...so...I understand your pain and the longing, your soulmate has yet to arrive and then again that individual may be just around the corner, do not give up. They will find you or you may just find them.

And Ouza there are times when you sound just like a poet, your words flow so smoothly, it wouldn't surprise me if your charming personality doesn't attract your other half.

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PostSubject: Re: Totally off the subject but...   Mon Sep 13, 2010 10:05 pm

Oh yes... absolutely
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